So it’s day 25 with the dreds, and time for a “reboot”, which is another trip to the dred-dresser to clean up the messy look. Here’s day 23:
Lots of messy — going every which way. Some of the dreds had fallen out completely and I was twisting them and anchoring with a small rubber band. Lots of fly-aways too. Oh my!
Here’s what happened today:
Properly retwisting my hair and weaving pieces throughout. It took 3 hours to do these twists, thanks to the ultra-patient Corrine. Some with a soft head may think this hurts, but I really didn’t think it was too bad. I think I just like having my hair played with, for whatever reason. It’s now up in a ponytail where it will stay a day or two. I also bought a du-rag to keep it covered all night, rather than the half the night the bandana was lasting, which will mean less jostling of my hair through the night.
Young man and I are off to Ecuador in 5 days and I am hoping my hair really begins to lock. If not, I am armed with a crochet hook and just enough knowledge to be trouble, I think. I may be rebooting my dreds a bit on the road.
Do you have dreds? How long did it take before yours really locked in? Any tips for me?
I’ve spent the entire day in disbelief that this is really, finally happening. Have you ever been double-minded like that? On the one hand saying, “Yes, God” but maybe at some deep level giving yourself an out so if it doesn’t come to be you can deal with it? So the day has been spent saying, “OH MY GOSH, WE ARE GOING TO ECUADOR!!” And wondering how God is going to show up to pull the rest of it together. Because He’s got to show up. We’ve booked the flight and the rest is our faith journey.
The young man (man child has become a teen and so the old moniker doesn’t quite work, hence the new one) is going with me and is VERY EXCITED. I am VERY EXCITED to share his first out of the U.S. of A. experience with him. (Well, except for Canada, but that’s U.S. of A. North, or at least it seems that way.)
I remember my first few weeks after arriving to spend a few months in Mexico City. (That was over 30 years ago but feels just like yesterday.) The adjustment was tough. I had had three years in university-level Spanish and had a piece of paper showing I was qualified to speak it, but as that first actual question came as I arrived, “De parte de quien?” I had zero idea what was being asked so I kind of clued in that this transition wasn’t going to be as easy as I thought it might be.
Then there was the food. So different that anything I had ever experienced. I had a list of everything I wasn’t supposed to eat (lettuce, watermelon, etc.) and really didn’t eat a lot of anything. I lost a lot of weight. Then I discovered Sugus, a chewy candy, and food kind of stabilized, filled-in with a lot of candy.
So that’s where my head is today — trying to think through and troubleshoot some of the issues you might have with a 13 year old who has only become a more adventurous eater in the last couple of years and has zero clue about the whole new reality he is about to enter in to. I think this is going to be a life-changer for him; I know it was for me.
We leave in about a month. We have no set plans other than some initial time in Quito and then striking out from there. I have NO IDEA how one navigates hotels and hostels when you don’t EVEN HAVE ACCESS TO WIFI as you move through life. GPS Navigation? Forget about it. I mean, I have visited Ecuador so I somewhat know what we’ll be facing, especially outside of the cities. But very quickly here I have grown accustomed to face life’s uncertainties armed with a smartphone and a Google app and now that crutch will be entirely taken away.
Follow our journey on Instagram. We’ll crosspost to Facebook. I’ll get on the blog if I can (but won’t be taking my computer and it’s a lot of weight in our backpack and a worry in my head). Instagram is @thisepicjourney. Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/This-Epic-Journey-1517863695115729/?fref=ts. I’ve also got a page about the journey with a little of the story at https://www.facebook.com/groups/616039435213645/. The posts will happen as we trip across wifi.
Say a prayer for us if you are the praying sort. I’ll need direction in a country still torn, in many ways, from the large earthquake this spring and the many temblors that have since followed. We’ll be okay, I know, as I am so confidant we are following a larger plan in all of this. We’ll come back changed, and confidant, and more faith-filled and my young man will soar in so many ways.
Ya know, one month can’t come soon enough for all that promise.